Yea I was looking for more of what should the settings in AEM should be set too. There are several settings in which to activate it and turn it off such as:
VTEC Fuel Trim VTEC IGN cut VTEC On Above Load VTEC Off Below Load VTEC On Above RPM VTEC Off Below RPM VTEC On Above TPS VTEC Off Below TPS VTEC On Above VSS VTEC Off Below VSS